Ladies night at the club sucks. In fact, chicks in general are pretty lame. Bunch of tricks mostly. So this is what happens when clubs let girls in for free: the normal crowd of guys show up and pay the cover. Then trucks busses vans and cars full of girls come to the cluba nd walk in for free. This is ok. Drinks are 75 cents untill 11 so everyone is getting crunk and the dance floor starts to fill up. By midnight everyone is dancing. All the girls are damcing too. The problem is……… they are all dancing WITH EACHOTHER . And they never want to split up. If any of the girls are tempted to dance with a guy, they give her the death stare and use group pressure to keep her from having a good time. Guys go to the club in packs but you don’t see US dancing with eachother ! And why do the gilrs grind their asses on eachother if it is not to attract guys?! So needless to say, my dancecard was a challenge to fill. Im not a psycho, I don’t want to take anyone home or go home with them, I am not trying to trick you or drug you, I just want to party and have a good time! But for some reason, girls go to the club to stick together and meet nobody.
Girls are tricks. Im at the bar again waiting in line. This one hot girl is standing nearby with her friends and as I get to the bar she says I just cut in front of her. This is BS and shes not angry. She is hot so I go in for her free drink ploy. I tell her sorry, lemme get you a drink to make up for it. She says ok, starts hugging up on me and being real friendly. She orders a drink at the bar……… the long island iced tea. Ok so you gotta be kidding me right? When someone buys you something you don’t pick out the most expensive thing you can unless you are a trick ass ho. 6 dollar drinks suck. So whatever, I offered so I paid for it. Im thinking well, you owe me something now. Nothing dirtyu, I just want to dance for a few songs. So I ask her if she wants to dance and she like “I have to wait for my friends to get back from the bathroom, I’ll be there in a minute.” Yeah Im so stupid I believe that. I was born at night but not last night. So not wanting to be an ass I say ok I’ll be over here. But I didn’t stay over there, Im not gonna be the loser standing by the corner waiting for a girl that isnt going to come. Pissed me off. How are you gonna ride me for the most expensive drink they have and then not even do something as easy and harmless as dance with the guy that bought it for you?
And let me clear up, I’ve been to different clubs plenty of times and I never have a problem with getting dances. Its only on ladies night that this tuff gets out of hand. What is it about no cover that turns chicks into dykes?
Last edited on Sat Nov 13th, 2004 04:58 pm by TXFO
Well, maybe all those ladies r like taken and just go there 2 pass the time while their man is out with his friends?? I dunno, I don't do ladies nights or what ever u call that, I hang with dude's LOL and my hubby all the time. But yeah, I have 2 idea and well hey it sucks 4 u 4 sure. I got nothing, hopefully Chelly has an answer, she always does.
Clubs do suck. I never go to em anymore. I never really liked them. I tried to avoid it all costs. The atmosphere makes me want to spray the place with bullets. People get on my nerves. The music gets on my nerves. It's just a recipe for "Falling Down".
I totally hear what your saying. I always noticed shit like that myself. Same way here. And sometimes, ladies night around here just means more dudes.
Ladies night - I used to go clubbing and half the fun is the chase, however...
Just because you buy a girl a drink doesn't mean we owe you jack. Sorry man, but your expectations there were well off the mark.
I'll tell you know...You players out there are getting back full force just as hard as we get it. Women get played all the time and what do we have to fight back with - a flirt, a wink and a no thank you.
I'll second Carmen's comment re: maybe they have a guy at home and they like the excitement of the game, but are faithful (even dancing pisses men off sometimes). I can tell you, many men I"ve known HATE the idea that their girl may be dancing with another guy...it freaks some of you right out. So - I'd rather be the one to tell my man that I had a guy approach me and offer me a drink, but I walked away.
BTW - Not all women are like these gaggles you're talking about. I actually can go to the bathroom alone & without a horde of women with me.
Oh, and if a guy asked me to dance, pending what he looked and smelled like, I'd probably dance...so long as he doesn't take advantage and grab me where he feels like it. (typical problem in clubs btw) This is why I go to gay clubs...no hassles.
Last edited on Mon Nov 15th, 2004 03:02 pm by Chelly03PZEV
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I hear what youa re saying chelly, I didnt expect anything for buying her a drink. but if you order the most expensive drink then its like, at least gimme something for it. on the other hand, if a chick deeks on you and takes the bleeds your wallet out for a long island, I guess you should KNOW that she is a ho and not even bother asking.